5 WAYS TO BE PERMANENTLY HAPPY!!

Feeling drained and unhappy with your life lately? here's a few tips!

1. DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.

Sometimes you just have to ignore all the negativity and just do it. This blog is something I have wanted to do for a long while but I've always been scared. I always thought, who will read this? What if people make fun of me? What if people talk? What if it's a flop? You need to stop being so afraid yo do what makes you happy. If you wait because of all the cons you'll never get anything done because whether you like it or not everything has an up and a downside so take the blind leap and hope for the best.

2. STOP PROCRASTINATING.

Mhhh I'll do it later...gosh it's too late to start studying.....nope I'll do it tomorrow when i have more energy. We've all have those moments, where you know you could be doing something productive with your life but you just can't be bothered. Well dear friend if you're looking to be happy then you need to just get up and do it, because if you don't you have that little voice at the back of your head nagging you telling you, "you could have gotten an A if you studied, but you had to watch the Simpsons.. woahhh" and i can guarantee you that that's going to bring more anxiety than happiness.

3.CUT THEM!!!

This is soooooo important like you don't even understand. It is sooo important to have people around you who build you, mold you and improve your emotional and mental health.Don't be afraid to let go of toxic people because you fear drama. Someone once said to me "why do you want to keep people that don't want you?", looking back now I realize that i did not treat myself the way I deserved. I became okay with letting people walk over me and i would always tell myself "ignore it....the way they treat you is your fault.....you should change....you're not enough" it's only later on this year when my life changed drastically that i realized that some people need to be cut lose without any sort of sympathy or apology. I have started loving the sound of my own footsteps walking away from things not meant for me. At first when I unfollowed some people on Instagram and stopped replying some certain others I felt guilty but my life started going great, I had only my loved ones around me, I had a lot less to worry about and i stopped having so much anxiety and fewer panic attacks. If that person was not attached to your hip when you were born then baby you do not need them.

4. BE IN TOUCH WITH YOUR INNER SELF.

Happiness is an inside job. You can not go and try find happiness from someone or something else because then it's not true happiness its a distraction, a distraction from what you're really feeling. You need to get in touch with your inner self whether it's through religion or other means. You need to be at peace. It is a must. I'm more at peace when i pray or meditate or just spend time by myself without my phone or the TV or Wi-Fi. Find what relaxes you and find time to really get to know yourself. By getting to know you, you get to know what you want and you become more focused on your own self and your goals. You learn how to mind your business and stay in your lane which will put you on top of your game. If you ever lose love do not go looking far and wide for it. Reach deep inside yourself and relight that spark.

5. LET IT GOOOO!!! FORGIVE, FORGET, MOVE ON.

OHHH MY GOSH THIS IS SOOOO CRUCIAL. If you're go in to be happy with yourself permanently you need to forgive, forget, let go and move on. Sometimes whats bringing us down is the ghosts from our past and the demons that haunt us from things we did a long time ago. We spend so much time holding a grudge when the person we're mad at probably move on a long time ago. Forgive others, you do not gain anything from being salty and holding a grudge. It makes you look childish and it's bad for your emotional health. You actually spend more time thinking horribly about that person and thinking of how they did you wrong when you could be spending your time and energy towards something unproductive. Forgive yourself also, I found it so hard to get over some things I dis in the past and that made me toxic to myself. I treated myself like trash because i could not forgive myself and that drained me mentally and emotionally and i was undoubtedly unhappy. Move on with your life, everything happens for a reason and if you dwell on the present you won't get to experience the future. Yes something went wrong in your life and that happens to everyone but what are you going to do about it? Let goo of the past, if it happened it happened. Don't keep bringing it up or else it will stress you. Continue to be the light wherever you go even if you were wronged or you were hurt. Let them see the light that shines from your soul. Be a blessing. If it didn't kill you then it made you stronger❤